The sordid details

OK. You wanted to know more about what I get up to, so here goes - just don't come running to me and saying "Ewww... that's icky." You're the one who clicked the link to reach this page, and you don't have to join me in anything mentioned here unless you want to.

The low down; or how to keep me happy and horny

Remember ...

Nothing is compulsory. Just because I talk about having done something on here, or enjoying it, that doesn't mean that I have to do it each time I play - in fact, some things will probably never be done with more than one or two people that I know I can trust 110%.

I'm mostly bottom, but I do do some mutual stuff. Here are a few things, with comments about how much I like them. This is from the point of view of having them done to me.

I really enjoy ...

Tit pain, lots and lots of it. Clamps, fingers, hot wax, clothes pegs. It's a great way to make me squirm.

Hoods and masks, ideally with poppers or perhaps a bit of breath control, or even cigar smoke.

Bondage goes nicely with the above, and with cock and ball torture too - hot wax over my cock, for example, while I'm helpless to stop you. Mummification, sleep sacks, strait jackets.

Boot licking, being spat on, the feel of gloved fingers in my mouth, or a boot on my head while I lick the other one.

Kissing, tongue biting, electricity.

Giving up control.

I quite like ...

Being pissed on, verbal abuse, cutting and burning, rebreathing, armpit licking, worshipping a guy's gear - especially leather, being gagged.

Butt plugs, sucking cock.

I've tried these, but they're not high on the list ...

Flogging, strangulation, piss drinking, rimming, douching, catheters, shaving, fucking.

I've tried these, and crossed them off the list ...

Corporal punishment, lists of positions to maintain, fractured ribs, scenes that start off at full throttle instead of building up.

I'd really like to try ...

More control based scenes, chastity, enforced wearing of a butt plug, play piercing. More suspension and long term bondage.

Other things to know

I don't take drugs. I don't mind if someone else does, as long as it's not going to make them do anything foolish. I'm not really interesting in trying fisting, scat, and extreme violence, nor will I do anything unsafe. Oh, and I may usually be a sub, but that's in the bedroom. I don't even clean my own flat, so I'm certainly not going to do yours!

On the rare occassions I top ...

When I top, it tends towards bondage, hoods, masks, forced taking of poppers, lots of tit pain, hot wax, clamps and things of that ilk. I wouldn't consider that I'm particularly good at dominating people, so don't expect me to start shouting at you and things like that. If you ask nicely I might even mummify you.

There you have it

If any or all of this appeals, then drop me an email via nigel@roughsex.org, or go back to my main page by clicking the RoughSex logo, and take a look at the pictures before making your final decision.